Last week, Yang and I made one of our periodic visits to Joan Bennett’s final resting spot in Lyme, Ct. We had planned to try to clear up any overgrowth as well as pay our respects, but, fortunately, the caretakers had mown the cemetery and Alixandra Lindberg (on a brave February visit) had put things on the grave stone in order. In fact, I can’t praise Alixandra enough for the fabulous job she did on Joan’s headstone. You can see that clearly in this picture. A tip of one of my many hats to you, Alixandra (I have about 136 of them!). There was an old Christmas wreath at the grave, but we didn’t remove it because we didn’t know if a family member had left it. Doing so felt intrusive.
The cemetery is a small one, but it’s pretty. We even saw some Phoebes flitting about – birds not girls. Across the road used to be a riding stable, now closed, sadly. I used to think Joan would have liked that location, given her experience as a rider – except for the Gilda Grey incident.
All we really needed to do was clip some overhanging grass with scissors and brush away some dirt. Yang did the clipping and I did the brushing. Here’s photographic evidence of me with a brush, anyway. By the way, Yang made that gorgeous blue blouse I’m wearing. There’s little he can’t do!
We didn’t just go to see Joan – that’s a two hour ride for a twenty-minute visit. Afterwards, we went to the nearby town of Essex and had lunch at the Griswold Inn: socially distancing of course. We also wore our masks – except when we were eating. Then we drove to fairly nearby Gillette Castle, built by William Gillette at the turn into the twentieth century. Gillette was a famous Sherlock Holmes for his day. Kind of an early twentieth-century Benjamin, er, Benedict Cumberbund, um, bach – you know whom I mean! Fortunately, there were few people around, so we hiked the extensive wooded grounds, avoided poison ivy, and saw many Bluebirds! Gorgeous! We also strolled around the outside of the castle and enjoyed the gardens and the extraordinary views of the Connecticut River below. Just for fun, we had taken the car ferry across the river to get to the castle. The ride was under ten minutes, but hey, nice river views. Even nicer views from the terrace of the castle. Imagine waking up every morning to these images.
So, it was a lovely expedition and a lovely way to spend the day. You may not see us wearing our masks in the pictures, but that’s only because we took them when no one else was around at all! We also picked places to go where infectious incidents were low, as well as a time of day and day of the week when most people would not be visiting. No dangerous interchanges! So, I hope you enjoyed this little virtual tour and adventure.